Thursday, 29 December 2011

love style

today's entry .. pasal jenis lova . yeap. . .aku belajar psychology dekat kampus . .so ada subtopic tu pasal 'love style'. think i wanna share with you guys coz yeah .. people always talk about love ey?so take a look :) jot down any matters that you think really2 interesting . or just print it . haha. rite




1 ) EROS ( PASSIONATE LOVE)
-Love at the first sight
-Where the partner’s physical appearance is highly important
-The Eros lover gets involved very quickly
-Eg: My lover and I were attracted to each other immediately after we first met. 



2) STORGE ( COMPANIONATE LOVE/FRIENDSHIP)
-slow-growing love, evolving out of affection and friendship
-Similarity between partners is extremely important
-Love is really a deep friendship, not a mysterious emotion. 


3) LUDUS (GAME –PLAYING LOVE)
-Love played as a game, never take this love too seriously
-Very playful in their approach of love
-Ludus lovers don’t mean to cause harm but they often do, with multiple partners at once.
-Eg: I have sometimes had to keep two of my lovers away from finding out about each other. 


4) MANIA ( POSSESSIVE LOVE)
-highly emotional, roller coaster ride of love
-mania lovers obsess about their partners
-Easily get jealous
-They fit with stereotype of ‘romantic love’
-Eg: I cannot relax if I suspect my lover is with someone else


5) PRAGMA ( LOGICAL / PRACTICAL LOVE)
-Pragmatic love: commonsensical, realistic, feet on the ground
-Pragmatic lovers know what they are looking for in a relationship and have ‘condition’ that must be met
-Eg: it’s good to love someone with a similar background 


6) AGAPE (SELFLESS LOVE)
- Totally selfless, giving and altruistic love
-Loving his partner too much.
-Agapic lovers are never think of themselves but their partners and what they can do for them
-It’s more spiritual than physical
- eg: I would rather suffer myself than let my lover suffer

so . . .which one that belongs to you? have a blast ;)


aq echa



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1 comment:

Nelly The Strange said...

err , nelly yang mana ya ? hahaha